Sexual abuse of children

Sexual abuse of children

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  By: 1- NasserBonayan AlDossary 2- Khalid Saeed Al Shahrani
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  In this showa Father Accused ex-girlfriend's mother, Sara, accused him of sexually molesting his 4-year-old daughter. Sara says she's convinced Jim's done the unthinkable. A lie detector test reveals shocking results!* Let‟s see what happened later … *the names in this show are not Real , Replaced their names because safety to the real people
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  Jim: I wasdevastated after my ex girlfriend‟s mother, Sara, accused him of sexually molesting his 4-year-old daughter, Katie. Jim “Once when I was putting Katie to bed, I saw her touching her vaginal area, and I asked, „Katie, what are you doing?' and she said, „My daddy do that.‟ I couldn‟t believe what she was saying,” says Katie‟s grandmother, Sara. “So, I called [her mother], Latia. I was just shocked.”
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  “I didn‟t believewhat my mom was telling me,” Latia says. “I was in denial. I didn‟t want to believe he would do something like that.” “I‟ve never touched my daughter inappropriately. Jim I‟ve never kissed my daughter inappropriately. These accusations are totally false,” Jim explains. “It feels like somebody stabbed me in my heart,” Sara cries. “My granddaughter is suffering. For what? Why? Because Jim decided to be selfish. I think Jim should pay for what he did. He needs to spend some time in prison. He doesn‟t need to do this to any other child.” Sara
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  Now, a yearsince he‟s last seen his daughter, Jim says he‟ll do anything to prove his innocence. “Why did you want to be here today?” Dr. Phil asks the father. “I wanted to be here,” Jim says, pausing, as he holds back tears, “I wanted to be here today to prove that I would never do anything like this to my daughter. I love my daughter. That is my world. She is everything to me, and for them to accuse me of something of this magnitude, I just don‟t understand.”
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  “So, you‟re sayingthat at no time in your life, no time in this child‟s life, have you ever had inappropriate contact with her?” Dr. Phil asks. “I‟ve never had inappropriate contact with my daughter,” Jim firmly replies.
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  Dr. Phil remindshim that he takes allegations of child sexual abuse very seriously. “You‟ve seen this show, you know how I feel about this, and if you don‟t know, let me tell you: I do begin this with a bias, and it is a bias against you because this has to be what I call a false-positive situation. You hear in the criminal system that someone is innocent until proven guilty. Well, this is a flip-flop in my opiion. If someone comes to me with an allegation that a child has been hurt, neglected, abused or in any way exploited, the system has to be correct, [until we] prove it wrong.”
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  He tells Jimhe intends to drill him on Sara's accusations for Katie‟s sake. “I would rather investigate 100 people who didn‟t do something wrong than fail to investigate someone who did something wrong.” Sara and Latia join Dr. Phil onstage. Turning to them, he explains that he knows someone is lying, and he plans to determine who is really telling the truth.
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  “Let me askyou something,” Dr. Phil says to Latia, “you met Jim, you started dating six years ago. You chose to form a relationship with him. You chose to have a baby with him. You chose to live with him. Did you miss [your relationship] that badly? Do you really believe this man has done what you‟re accusing him of doing? Did you miss it that badly? Are you that blind?” “No,” Latia responds. “I say that he did it because my daughter told me he did. I feel that I'd be a horrible mother not to believe what my daughter has told me. I feel that I'd be a horrible mother if I did not automatically protect her after hearing what she has told me.” Latia
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  Dr. Phil tellsLatia she made the right decision by taking every precaution to protect her child. “We have to assume these children are telling the truth, but are you saying that because that‟s what your mother told you, or are you saying that because that‟s what you believe?” He notes that Sara criticized her for not immediately believing Jim molested Katie. “So, are you doing all this to please [your mother] and escape her criticism, or are you doing this because you really believe he molested your child?”
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  “I‟m doing thisbecause my daughter told me that‟s what he did,” Latia stammers. Latia “Do you really believe that?” Dr. Phil asks Latia. He tells her that she sounds unconvinced, as if her mother pressured her to defend the allegations. Latia admits that Jim never displayed any signs of abusive parenting. “I've never seen him harm Katie in any kind of way, but my daughter told me this,” she insists. Latia
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  “Are you behindall this?" Dr. Phil asks Sara. “Is this about, 'OK, I‟ll get you, you son-of a-bitch?‟ Is that what we're talking about here?" Dr. Phil notes that Latia claims Jim tried to run her over with a car and allegedly raped her. Jim denies ever trying to run her over and says that the rape allegations are absurd. “Why would you try to get back with me if I raped you?” he asks Latia. The two break into a shouting match. “You don‟t want to fess up to anything!” Latia screams. “I don‟t understand why I‟m here.” Latia
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  “We‟re here becauseof my daughter!” Jim exclaims. “Not because I hurt you. It doesn‟t matter what we went through because the allegations that you‟re giving now are false." What‟s Happened In easy English .. ? Character are ; Jim his girlfriend Tania Sara her ex-girlfriend's mother Dr.Phil and Katie the daughter they talk about her . Jim he said I am Innocent on the other side, Sara her ex-girlfriend's mother She said he accused My granddaughter 4-year-old In Dr.Phil Show
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  Child Sexual AbuseWarning Signs and Resources If you're worried that your child is being sexually abused, look for the following possible warning signs: •Changes in behavior: withdrawal, fearfulness, crying without provocation •Loss of appetite or other eating problems •Poorly explained injuries: bruises, rashes, cuts, genital pain or bleeding • •Sudden reluctance to be alone with a certain person • •Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexually related matters; inappropriate expression of affection "They often won't tell you straight up that something is happening to them, because they've been threatened, they may be The End ashamed, or they may not want to talk to you about it," Dr. Phil says. "Think about these warning signs and ask questions. Create a dialogue if you're worried about what's going on with a child."
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